I’ve spent the past week exploring my masculine-presenting side, and I think I’m getting somewhere with it! Men’s clothes are weird; everything I try is too tight in some places and then too baggy in others, and I’ve yet to find anything that fits Just Right. But I’m figuring out what fashions I like best when presenting masculine, so if I can find something that ACTUALLY FITS then I’m gonna have a great time!
I’ve tossed around going by another name when presenting masculine, but I dunno. Donovan popped in my head one day and won’t go away, but I feel like having two alternate-gender names with the same first letter would be tacky. I’m probably overthinking it, but I’ll focus on figuring out presentation for now and just go from there.
Ah, I’m surprised how much more comfortable overall I feel with myself! I found a bracelet at Spencer’s in the colors of the nonbinary flag and have been wearing it ever since. I fit right in with the enby community on Reddit and try to pay back the kindness I’ve received by giving it tenfold. In the long-term, not much is changing, but I just feel so much more confident in who I am.