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  • 6 hours and a lot of hardwork later, my room is CLEAN!!!! it needs to be vacuumed but other than that shes looking good and im SO happy!
    i want to buy sweet lolita/over the top fluffy feminine fashion but im not sure if id ever have the confidence to wear it
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    atta girl!!
    peaches2217
    peaches2217
    You could absolutely start an IG or a Twitter dedicated to showing off your outfits! I had a friend in high school who was into Lolita fashion; she rarely wore it outside of her house, but it made her very happy. If you wanna try it, I say go for it!

    Maybe buy some cheaper outfits or accessories first, from Hot Topic or Spencer’s or eBay. Try them on, learn that you’re a cutie who can absolutely pull such fashion off, and work your way up from there!
    cafenurse
    cafenurse
    awww i love the support and encouragement! ive been trying to up my fashion game lately, im not usually very adventurous with clothes but im really trying now!!!
    customer service jobs are so rough. you come home miserable everyday because i swear it's impossible to have a full 8 hour shift without dealing with at least 10 assholes
    peaches2217
    peaches2217
    I'm coming up on two months in the retail industry, and I'm quickly discovering a soft heart and a thick skin are essential if I intend to survive. I got lucky, and I have managers and coworkers that are kind and understanding, and we all support each other and make fun of difficult customers to help blow off steam, but we're a fairly small store; I can't even imagine how stressful it must be in larger stores. I'm so sorry things are so rough right now. Things will get better, I know they will!
    cafenurse
    cafenurse
    ive hit my 2 year anniversary of fast food, its easier depending on the day but sometimes im a big cry baby and just dont like to be yelled at lol.
    morning shifts are wild because i thought theyd be great because i get out of work in the early afternoon so i have all day to do things, but truth is im so exhausted when i get home from work i just lay in bed all day and then i have to be asleep before sunset in order to wake up in time to get ready the next day
    peaches2217
    peaches2217
    Yup. That's why I prefer afternoon and evening shifts; when I work mornings, especially consecutive mornings, I'm too exhausted to do anything outside of work.
    i just got....a very good idea for some youtube uploads next month....i know i say im gonna post stuff all the time and then i dont (im really critical of my work so a lot of stuff gets finished just never made public), but i hope i can really perform what i hope to do next month!! :)
    theres a lot of producers i really like as musicians but i cant follow them on social media because i don't fancy the kind of stuff they post. so i end up following like no one in the community on anything and then im so out of the loop when something happens. yall need to help keep me in the loop like im a grandma and youre my tech savvy grandkids.
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    Exemplar
    Exemplar
    I know how that feels. I used to follow this one dj on Twitter but he liked a very questionable tweet a pornstar made that involved a photoshop of him and her. Even worse I saw it pop up on my feed while eating at Taco Bell 🤬
    cafenurse
    cafenurse
    LMAO
    i want to get my license not to actually drive, but so my family will stop asking when im getting my license all the time
    someone i considered a close friend decided they dont like me anymore; went around telling everyone i cheated on my ex and some other nasty things. i dont know who all hes told and who believes him. but im pretty heartbroken about it.

    things in my personal life have been so rough lately. i hate to be a debby downer but man im struggling.
    Lemony
    Lemony
    Whatever phase of your life this is (Although I'm guessing its high school because it sounds petty enough,), just know that it's temporary and it does get better. If your friends leave you after something like that without even letting you explain what happened, then they don't deserve you.
    uncreepy
    uncreepy
    Sorry this happened to you. Maybe you can look on Google/Reddit to see if people shared their stories for how to handle something like this. I hope stuff gets better for you soon, I wish I knew what to say to help better.
    cafenurse
    cafenurse
    I'm in college now, but this does sound like high schooley drama huh lol. Luckily in a few months I move back to the city I grew up in so I don't have to be around this community anymore and I can just put this all behind me.
    I appreciate all the support everyone! It's nice to have such a warm, friendly community to go to when things are rough.
    i lost the mixing files for this cover three times and have to redo the mix a third time!!! i think im just gonna give up on it huff puff
    cafenurse
    cafenurse
    i dont know how i lost the files the first time but the other 2 times were just really dumb mistakes on my behalf and the fact i never save files, for some reason
    at the beginning of the year when i was financially stable i ordered a ton of figures and ive honestly forgotten what i ordered. theyre just gonna show up one day and ill be like "woah! christmas in october!"
    i like morning shifts because they go by fast and are generally well staffed compared to nights where they put like 3 people on the schedule but man do i feel like an old person going to bed at 9 pm to wake up at 5 am. call me grandma
    cafenurse
    cafenurse
    i also live a 2 minute drive away from the store and it takes me like 3 minutes to get ready and i still insist on waking up an hour before my shift because being late scares me. no one usually even cares if youre a few minutes late but if im not sitting in the breakroom waiting to clock in 30 minutes before my shift i let myself DOWN
    had to call my credit card company today and after sitting through 10 minutes of robot voice i now have to listen to an hour of the worst hold music ever. cry. i hate banks. why cant i just send emails
    in some good news (since ive been such a debby downer lately lol), my boss let me help her decorate the break room and create posters for "employee appreciation weekend" and the regional manager came in today and loved it and asked me to help with stuff like this all the time. im so happy she liked my work and im also glad to get to do it more often because i work a very fast paced stressful job and i kind of enjoyed just spending an hour of my shift blowing up balloons instead of having to do my usual work :lapis_ani_lili:
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